With whom are you at ease ?

                   With whom do you feel really comfortable and at ease ?

With someone who does not question your love , someone who takes for granted that you love them .Isn't it ?
                  When someone doubts your love and you constantly have to prove it , this becomes a heavy load on your head.They start questioning you and demanding explanations for all your actions .To explain everything you do is a burden .Your nature is to shed the burden because you don't feel comfortable.
                             When you question the reason behind someone's action , you are asking for justice for yourself .You create a distance when you ask for justice.Your whole intention is to come close, but instead you create a distance .
                You are the eternal Witness .You are as much a witness to your own actions as you are to someone else's .When someone asks you for an explanation for your actions they are speaking from do-ership and imposing that do-ership on you .This brings discomfort.

Neither demand an explanation , nor give an explanation.

If somebody is just there with you , like a part of you, they don't question you.They are like your arm .There is a closeness and unity that goes beyond all demands and questions.

(Excerpt from Sri Sri Ravishanker's Montreal Ashram knowledge form )