Being A Man

Hey Men , Do You Agree with Neil Strauss's view of Male Sexuality ?

Mostly Yes.

 

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Mostly No.

 

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I'm Not Sure.

 

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None Of your Bloody Business !

 

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An excerpt from "The Game "

Author : Neil Strauss

Male sexuality on the surface may seem like it runs rampant in society-there are strip clubs , porn websites , Maxim-style magazines , and titillating advertisements everywhere.But , despite all this , true male desire is often kept repressed.

Men think about sex more than they will ever admit to women ,or to each other .Teachers think about fucking their students , fathers think about fucking their daughter's friends, doctors think about fucking their patients.And Right now , for every woman with an iota of sex appeal (that means you , if you are a female reading this !) , there's probably a man somewhere in the world who's touching himself and thinking about what it would be like to fuck her.She may not even know him : He may be that businessman who walked past her in the street  or the college student who sat across her on the subway.And any man who tells a woman otherwise is most likely doing so because he's trying to get in her pants , or pants of someone else within earshot.The great lie of modern dating is that in order to sleep with a woman , a man must pretend initially as if he doesn't want to  !

Most appalling to woman is the male obsession with strippers , porn stars and teenage girls.It is abhorrent because it threatens a woman's reality .if all men really desire a woman like that , where does that leave her marriage and happily ever after fantasies? She is doomed to live them with a man who really wants a Victoria's secret model  or the neighbour's daughter or that dominatrix in the video he hides in his closet.As a woman ages , an 18 year old will always remain 18 .Love is dashed on the rocks in the face of the possibility that a man doesn't want a person but a body.

Fortunately , this is not the entire truth .Men are visual thinkers , thus we're often deceived by our eyes.But the truth is that fantasy is often better than reality.Most men eventually learn that lesson.

Men are not dogs, We merely think we are and , on occasion , act as if we are.But , by believing in our nobler nature , women have the amazing power to inspire us to live up to it.This is the reason why men tend to fear commitment and sometimes , even rebel against it by endeavoring to bring out the worst in a woman.

A few Personal comments.

Though Neil Strauss is trying to represent all men -folk , I feel like I don't fit in.

First of all , despite the recent posts claiming otherwise , I'm all for love (before sex)

And I don't think of fucking every other girl/woman just because I happen to find her attractive/beautiful/sexy/slutty /hot(Be my guest , add your own adjective)

And , NO, I'm not saying this because I'm trying to get into some girls pants (or what ever she might be wearing).I don't have a secret agenda here.I just think Neil Strauss is misrepresenting us.(or at least me) Any comments?

Also , for some reason , I think I was born monogamous.Don't ask me how or why .

Men are visual thinkers.But here i deviate a bit.A part from visual thinking , I;m my large an aural thinker.I think and hear my thoughts , and for posterity , I record them : in a diary , notebook , my journal , a scrap of paper , my voice recorder, and sometimes my blog.

I'm firmly grounded in my reality, or at least my perception of it, stripped away from all of its fantasies and other such deceptions.I hate it when my perceptions are altered-thus I hate alcohol , nicotine and any other drug.

I'm not afraid that I may never find true love , or that I might die alone.I was born alone , I will die alone.We all ultimately die alone.

My best friend calls me a "Weirdo".I reject my moniker , my labeling.I'm not weird .I may be complex and complicated .But not weird.I'm just ME.

Finally Men are not dogs, neither are they martians.Men are simply men.Live with that.