"Ok , what do you want ? I'm not going to sleep with you ...You're not my type, I never thought of you in that way, you are like my brother,lets just be friends "
"Hey , Hey ! I just told you that you were beautiful , thats all...I didn't want anything in return "
Why are women are distrustful of "Nice Guys." ?
Ans :How does she know he isn't just pretending to be nice in order to get into her pants? Sure, he's buying dinner and telling her she's pretty.. .but is that what he's really
like? Or is that just what he's like when he wants something?
To women , nice guys are normal guys who lack the balls to take the first step and actually do something manly like ask her out.
Instead they remain forever in the "friend" zone, and constantly compliment them and be there when they need them and do all other things that basically emasculate them every other day !
Therefore this lack of trust is a natural defense mechanism that ensures that only strong men(men who have enough balls to make the right moves ) get any chance .
Nice guys are losers...nobody wants to mate with a loser !
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Trust me ; She is not a Princess.
Love , infatuation or obsession makes us wear those rose tinted glasses which make all imperfections disappear like celebrity cellulite under a photoshop knife .(filter)
Trust me ...even if you think a woman is a goddess or a princess , she doesn't think so.
Even though she may look like a goddess or act like a princess she knows she’s no goddess. Her self-image is one of imperfection and incompleteness.
That’s normal.
Only insane people think they’re perfect. She knows deep down that no one deserves instant adoration. Adoration has to be worked for. She respects you for not telegraphing sexual or romantic intent when she has made little effort.
Remember : She is not perfect and it simply drives her crazy when you act like she is.
Oh yeah, If she is perfect , then what is she doing with you in the first place , huh ?
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I recently asked a friend "How would you like to be wooed ?" or alternately "How would you like to be seduced ?"
And I did get an honest answer for my question.(Which will not be discussed here)
But here's the problem...
Women will continually tell you what they want(not just about how to woo them ), and a lot of them are very good people, but break through the mask of who they consciously are, and they want the opposite of everything they just told you.
Think you can break through the mask? Think again. That’s six layers of a specialized reinforced concrete known as mental makeup (cosmetics for personality). You’re not getting through anything, because she will not let you .
So here's the answer...Women have no idea what they want...well... they do have a vague idea...but nothing concrete really.
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Love, let us also talk about love :
We have this idea that love is supposed to last forever .But love isn't like that.It's a free flowing energy that comes and goes when it pleases .Sometimes it stays for life , other times it stays for a second , a day , a month , or a year.So don't fear love when it comes simply because it makes you vulnerable.But don't be surprised when it leaves ,either.Just be glad you had the opportunity to experience it.
It’s often said that love is self-hypnosis; a beautiful psychosis that takes hold and prompts us to act in ways that we would otherwise not even consider.
Love cannot be forced or enforced nor can it be demanded.
When you demand or force or enforce it , all you get is fear and hatred.
Because the idea of love can also be destructive for some people,it can be a self-deception that they can focus on as a way to avoid facing their shortcomings.
There are people who will fall in love with anyone who will have them.People with no standards.
I'm one of them.
I fall in love too easily !
Why, just yesterday I fell in love with Betty Soares , because her character had the ability to make me laugh.
A Good sense of Humour is very attractive in a woman .
And beauty is truly overrated.
Like me, There are people eager in love with the idea of being in love.
There are other people who fear falling in love. They are jaded, and create emotional barriers to prevent themselves from being hurt in the future.Ultimately, people process their experiences through a fog of emotions, and create and intensify these occurrences in their own minds.
Is it possible, that it is only when you don’t need love that you will find it?
Well , here's an experiment well worth a try...
I declare that I don't need love anymore !
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