A gradual role reversal is happening.Women are now choosing mates more based on their looks than intelligence and men prioritize intelligence in the women that they want.(Well, at least men like Me !)
This was proven in a BBC TV programme called Tomorrow's World, where in an experiment devised by noted British psychiatrist Dr.Raj Persaud, the viewing public was presented with two pictures of members of the opposite sex who definitely varied in terms of physical attractiveness- one was obviously prettier or more handsome than the other.Beneath each picture was a kind of lonely hearts column Dr.Raj Persaud had composed in which the person in the photograph was inviting the viewer of the programme to accompany them on a romantic weekend in the Caribbean.The wording was more or less the same, but there were subtle differences which should have been so minor as to operate below conscious awareness.
In one script , for instance , the person invited you to swim in the shimmering blue sea;in the other you were invited to swim in the shimmering azure sea.The viewers were then asked to choose the person they would prefer to go away with.Complex vocabulary was used as a proxy for education or intelligence.
The surprising finding was that women went more for looks in their choice of men, while the men prioritzed intelligence in their choice of women.Just the use of words like 'azure' significantly swung the audience towards the lesser physically attractive person, indicating that the public generally were voting for intelligence over looks, yet amazingly this was more marked in the voting of men.
This would be good news to all women who think they are not pretty enough and really bad news to all men who think they are not !
but romantic weekend in the Caribbean is just short term.
ReplyDeleteYeah...but a big commitment , if you have to spend it with a total strannger ...don't you think ?
ReplyDeleteI must add that I've just highlighted a part of the total experiment...Another experiment done along with this one showed that physical attractiveness in men is a good indicator of future success...For eg. A more handsome lawyer will earn upto 5 times more than his peers in the same period of time...
ReplyDeleteSo , infact women are going for better genes when they choose physical attractiveness...
I'm thinking of rhinoplasty !
Apparently kunal kapoor is soooooooo handsome according to my friends...Therefore , he is on this page and not brad pitt.
ReplyDeletelooks a bit like Jesus (the Christ) actually..
ReplyDeleteKunal Kapoor??? Seriously? I mean... seriously?
ReplyDeleteYeah...girls simply drool over his dimples !
ReplyDeleteI found out recently !
Hey , Ms.J , if it isn't a big deal...then I invite you to swim in the shimmering azure sea !
ReplyDeleteOf course it'll be in the arabian sea...of mangalore !
Gee... this would have depressed me terribly 30 years ago...
ReplyDeleteThe author , Dr.Raj Persaud states that this is a relatively new phenomenon...So , you would be hardly affected...:)
ReplyDeleteHe also states that gradual economic independence and female empowerment are the main causes...
And there are are always exceptions to the rule...
And you luckily retain all your handsomeness despite your age...(What , are you close to 50 now ?)
yeah, luckily indeed.
ReplyDeleteI always thought I look so ordinary that a lot of people often mistake me for someone else. hahaha.
I'm 55 and looking forward to start a fresh life with an old hobby I abandonned years ago, which has nothing to do with women.
Cheers ! I guess you'll be enjoying yourself !
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