Get Real people : Viewing your partner through rose-coloured glasses can actually hurt your marriage or relationship.A study conducted at the university of Florida found that couples who glossed over their partner's weakenesses were more likely to get divorced than
those who made a more pragmatic assessment.Facing up to his bad manners or disorganzation
, for example . is better than pretending these flaws don't exist."People whi Idealize their
partners are only setting themselves up for disappointment " says Lisa A.Neff , Ph.D ,
the lead researcher in the study.
huh!...good to know that..
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